Nowruz Inspiring International Friendship

I now live in the South West of England in Devon, which is probably more known for its rolling hills, beautiful brown cattle and scones with clotted cream than its cultural diversity. However Plymouth is my nearest largish town, which has a rich sea faring history which ensured some ebb and flow of different cultures, but never in significant numbers. Last weekend I discovered that, as in New York of 1909, when Harry Edmonds met the lonely Chinese Student who inspired the founding of I-House, it is places of study in Plymouth that are drawing in young people from across the world. Global Plymouth is an organisation, which through its monthly international bring and share suppers, attracts a diverse group of locals, academics and students together to eat and forge new friendships.

The supper I attended was celebrating a range of spring festivals, including Nowruz Persian New Year and Easter. There were 22 nationalities represented both in people and the food they had bought to share. As I sat there taking in the atmosphere and watching the interaction, I was thinking about the Sunday Suppers that Florence and Harry Edmonds hosted on and off at a variety of locations including Earl Hall on the Colombia University campus from 1910 until the opening of I-House in 1924. An extract below gives a vivid description of the process and energy required to put them on. In Plymouth a team of about 10 cheery volunteers was helping serve the many dishes from behind a counter, washing up and ensuring everyone was well fed. Creating opportunities for sharing takes energy and commitment. Then as now holding these gatherings it is also an act of faith that people will show up and interact. Back in Harry and Florence’s day there was no social media to spread the word of the event, but they also did not have to compete for attention with ever pinging devices once the supper was underway!

This year I-House New York celebrates 100 years since its doors opened in September 1924. Keeping those doors open and the House relevant has required huge faith and energy from every member of staff, donor, resident and volunteers. How institutions stand the test of time is something I thought about a lot on my 2019 trip recreating my great grandfather’s last world tour, it really is down to the strength of their founding ‘idea’ and all those many individuals who embody, are custodians of, and evolve it. I am very much looking forward to celebrating every one of them in September at the I-House Centennial gathering.

Extract from Harry Edmonds Memoirs recorded by Berkeley University – “Our home was not large enough (for the Sunday Suppers).  We must do something downtown.  This was at that time when through Mr Dodge and Mr Morgan, I was able to get Earl Hall for this purpose.  We started our first series of Sunday Suppers in the fall of 1910 in one of the small rooms that wouldn’t hold more than thirty-five.  Our whole idea was to create an atmosphere that would be home-like and not in any way different from the little gatherings we had at our home in the country, except of course, there would be a little more formality with all those students gathered around a table.”“There would have to be a program of introductions, and somebody speaking, and the food had to be abbreviated because there were no food facilities in Earl Hall to draw on.  I found after on or two experiences that getting together the ingredients of food from a near by delicatessen was a very expensive operation.  What did I do?  I took two suitecases of good size and took the L down to Washington Market.  There I procured for a fraction of what I would have had to pay on the hill, the best butter, eggs, oranges and apples and so forth. I lugged them with my two strong arms through the “L” and up to Earl Hall.” (had no car)“That was the sort of stuff we put into it.  It was physical, mental and spiritual sharing with these young people. Our supper would consist of hot chocolate, maybe some rolls and butter and an apple.” 

Celebrating I-House Birthdays

International House NYC was founded in the autumn of 1924 and ever since every autumn, alumni around the world hold I-House Days to get together and celebrate its founding. Last year there were 21 events in 13 countries and the NYC alumni team are busy connecting with alumni to schedule this year’s events.

The NYC I-House alumni association was started by Harry Edmond’s secretary in 1925 and as Berkeley and Chicago opened it also covered those Houses too. Back in those days they published a little booklet with alumni information in, which was effectively your passport to friendly alumni around the globe. Eventually as the years ticked by and the number of alumni grew, each House started to look after its own alumni. The NYC alumni association grew to a point when in its hey day there were 100 active chapters around the world. To find out what is planned for 2019 visit https://www.ihouse-nyc.org/news_events/ihouseday/ I hope that we can expand the number of events from last year and get even more alumni involved as we get another year closer to the 100th anniversary in 2024.

Berkeley I-House Steps 1931

Meanwhile Berkeley I-House is celebrated its 89th birthday on August 18th and is adding alumni stories to its history pages. http://ihouse.berkeley.edu/stories/

I-House University Alberta founded 4th September 2004

Newer to the International Houses World Wide family is I-House Alberta, which is celebrating its 15th Birthday with an event on the 8th of September. Sadly I cannot attend in person but I am very honoured to have been asked by Leslie Weigl, their current Director, to speak by video link to the students. We are keeping fingers crossed that the technology will work. Alberta welcomes about 150 students a year, from over 40 countries and whilst it is smaller than many other I-Houses has a very active programme and works hard to make it a home away for home for its residents. https://www.ualberta.ca/global-education/international-house

Also celebrating this year is the International House in Romania, Westgate Studios. It is celebrating 10 years since it was inaugurated. It is the largest House in the International Houses World Wide family, being home to around 800 residents. I am very much hoping to visit it soon https://www.westgatestudios.ro/despre-noi

As I have reflected before keeping an International House running effectively takes a brilliant team who attract a diverse set of residents from as many corners of the world as possible and enable them to create international friendships whilst sharing their cultures. I am grateful to every one of those team members for all their work and passion to carry on what Harry and Florence started.

Tolerance

This scarf of New York landmarks including the Statue of Liberty belonged to my grandmother, Harry Edmonds’ middle daughter Margaret. Sadly, even though she had grown up at International House and was surrounded by Harry and Florence’s ethos of tolerance, my memories of her are of someone who had very set views on who she would and would not tolerate, to the point of being uncomfortable and embarrassing. Her influence on me, if any, has been that I determined to be curious and interested in people no matter their background, religion or country of origin. I am however curious about what it is that either encourages us to be tolerant or to choose to be fixed in our views. I will never know what the switch was in my grandmother, but I do believe that International House allows for that exploration and hopefully residents are touched with a new level of tolerance as they go out into the world.

Joe Lurie kindly shared his informal history of I-House Berkeley with me again last week and as I was reading it I was struck by the piece about an amazing lady Delilah Beasley who was a black journalist on the Oakland Tribune in the 1930s. There was a great deal of protest at the House being built and the idea of having somewhere where people of all nationalities and races and both men and women living was very controversial. Delilah was never a resident of the House but she turned up when there was a big protest (c800 people) and passionately advocated the need to let the House be built. She also took on the local property developers who were unhappy about the House going up. She was in my view a champion of tolerance. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delilah_L._Beasley